Relationship Intelligence Quiz
The relational pattern shaping your success in love, leadership & legacy.
Most high-achieving women and visionary couples don’t struggle because they lack insight, commitment, or ambition.
They struggle because no one ever taught them how relational patterns quietly shape power, closeness, and communication — especially under pressure.
You can be successful in your work.
You can be deeply committed to your relationship.
And still feel stuck in the same moments of tension, distance, or misunderstanding.
Not because you’re doing it wrong —
but because something automatic is running the show.
This short reflective quiz is designed to help you notice the relational pattern you default to when things matter most.
Not to fix it.
Not to diagnose you.
Just to see it.
Awareness is the first upgrade.
Hi, I’m LoriAnne Reeves.
As a couples, relationship, business therapist and coach for entrepreneurial couples, I’ve worked with hundreds of partners to help them thrive in business and love. I created this checklist to give you a clear, actionable guide to strengthen your connection, align your goals and create a life of impact together. This is my gift to you—no strings attached."
WHAT THIS QUIZ IS (AND ISN’T)
This quiz is:
A reflective snapshot
A mirror, not a label
An invitation to notice what’s familiar
Grounded in relationship psychology and lived experience
This quiz is not:
A personality test
A diagnosis
A measure of health or success
Something you need to “pass”
You may recognize yourself immediately.
You may recognize more than one pattern.
Both are normal.
WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER
By the end of the quiz, you’ll have clarity on:
The relational pattern you rely on most under pressure
How this pattern has supported your success
What it tends to cost over time
Where your growth edge may be — without pressure to change
Most people tell me they finally have language for something they’ve felt for years.
THE FOUR RELATIONAL PATTERNS YOU’LL EXPLORE
Inside the quiz, you’ll be guided through four common patterns that show up in love, leadership, and partnership:
The Holder — stability, responsibility, emotional containment
The Pursuer — connection, responsiveness, emotional attunement
The Driver — momentum, direction, results
The Adapter — harmony, flexibility, relational sensitivity
Each pattern once protected you.
Each pattern makes sense in context.
None are wrong.
HOW TO TAKE THE QUIZ
Set aside about 5 minutes.
Answer based on moments of stress or pressure, not your ideal self.
There are no right answers.
Only familiar ones.
You’ll receive a personalized reflection at the end.
AFTER THE QUIZ
After you complete the quiz, you’ll receive:
• Your primary relational pattern
• A short reflective interpretation
• Gentle prompts for awareness
• An invitation to explore further — only if you choose
Relationship Intelligence isn’t about fixing yourself or your partner.
It’s about understanding how your nervous system, history, and ambition shape the way you relate — especially when the stakes are high.
Awareness comes first.
Integration comes later.
When you’re ready.
